Yeah right! I suppose its all relative, isn't it...
Thanks for the compliment. I do hope to find what I deserve in someone. I read JamesL's thread in Surviving - he seems to have a similar stance. To stay in touch with the X, staying open to them changing and to the possibility of reconciliation, but not assuming either will happen, and moving on in the meanwhile. Very tricky business, that particular stance.
It must be the Christmas season. I've been approached by four women in the past 10 days communicating their interest in me in one way or another. All Catholic, most divorced. Things were very quiet over the past year really. Nothing like this. M, I am praying quite a bit, trying to shout out the libido, which seems to have quite a set of lungs on him. Just taking it very slowly, focusing on my work, squeezing in some extra rest and self-care, and hoping for some clear direction or a simple answer. Something tells me that there won't be a simple answer.