Quote: I met an attractive intelligent woman who works in finances and we're just talking lightly and planning a few dates. Its important for me to move on at this point, while keeping some part of the door cracked open. I'll be honest with this new person about my stance.
I completely understand where you are coming from on this, and I respect and honor the fact that you are willing to be open and honest with this new person.
Take your time, move slowly and pray, a lot. Those have all proven to be good tools for you in the past.