OMG, my weenie has an appendix, too? So, my weenie now has the following: 1. an appendix 2. mechanism to expel urine 3. mechanism to expel semen (with no spermies as of 2003) 4. erectile tissue 5. a mind of its own 6. and, according to Ms.Hdog, reason enough to be attributed as the cause of every war, every crime, the glass ceiling, the injustice of the objectification of women, and countless other sins.
That's a heckuva load for a weenie to handle. So to speak.
You forgot it has brains too, as in you just think with that head. I'm pretty sure that's not what you meant by having a mind of its own (I took that as meaning it pops up when it feels like it, especially back in our high school days).
I kind of meant "mind" in both respects. One of my favorite singer/songwriters had an album called "Little Head." Lyrics..."I'm so easily led when the little head does the thinking."
Suprising because of having "adenomyosis"...something I have never heard of but is akin to endrometriosis but ...hmmm....suposed to be something like having the lining tissue of the uterus grow into the muscle of the uterus and enlarge it vs lining the uterus like its suposed to during the menstrual cycle....funny tho, its suposed to go away post memopausal...well...4ish years didnt help it any. Anyhow atm I feel about the same post surgery as I did pre surgery AND the Dr says it should get better yet...yippee!
remember, I've only got cuts like the laproscopic galbladder surgery they do now...no "zippers" no real muscle cutting....some bruising from having the organ removed but.....
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
Ok, at one week post SSSSSSSSSSSSssssssssssssssiP! I can catagorically state that I can, under the correct sit, be aroused. YIPPEE! Ok the hormones may not be all gone but the mind still plays the role.
Too bad, it was with finding some porn on H's puter that he was watching while I was in the hospital gettting "fixed". There is so much irony there that his "release" is sexual. When the rest of him isn't. Thank goodness I can intellectually understand that looking at budding young women under humilitating circumstances is considered exciting and not related to the emotional connection of the marriage bed.
An affair may not be honest, respectful or anything else other than selfish and selfmedicating need to be loved.
That thinking is so ironic, I know I'm loved. In services...yet to have taken the smoother pavement, and not looking at confused young girls being taken avantage of would have been so nice to know was happening while I was being "spayed".
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
Lou, I'm told that this kinda recovery is so wonderful. I'm about 90% at only a week. With the zipper approach to the opperation, the muscles in the belly were so distroyed recovery was 6-8 weeks! NOT 6-8 days!
Thanks for the good wishes, hugs...
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay
An affair may not be honest, respectful or anything else other than selfish and selfmedicating need to be loved.
Whew, this is making my mind reel....... damn you and thank you, LostGal
Your clinical assesments of the porn you came across (probably true no doubt) is more then slightly comical to me, considering it follows a remark that it had the ability to arouse you, despite all that.
<attraction brain> mmmmm, that makes me hot <logical brain> gross, that is so wrong...
I'm pretty sure that's not what you meant by having a mind of its own (I took that as meaning it pops up when it feels like it, especially back in our high school days). 
