My sitch in a nutshell: Me: 46 WAW: 44 (MLC?) Married: 21 yrs Separated: 15 months WAW filed for D 9 months ago D15 & D13 WAW lives in same apt bldg/different apt as OM
WAW has stated that she is never coming back, she is purposely rude to me so I don't think she is coming back. (Ok, I admit that I did some whining and clutching and grabbing in the beginning)
DD's visit WAW on Tue & Thu from 4:30 to 9:00 and stay w/WAW every other weekend Fri 7PM to Sun 9PM. She has filed a custody complaint against me b/c she wants DD's to stay overnight on Tue & Thu. I think not b/c it is too much disruption in their schedules. Recently in an email she asked "Has it ever occurred to you that the girls want to see me as much as I want to see them?"
In reality, D13 & D15 want WAW to come home and I see this to mean that actually D13 & D15 want to spend more time w/WAW that WAW wants to spend w/them. (This would cut into OM time!)
My point to you is you have to STOP yourself, control yourself, that reflex to run down that comfortable neural pathway, of trying to logical your wife when you start to have an argument.
In reference to WAW's question and your comment on not trying to logical my WAW", should make this point to WAW? Any other comments or suggestions?
