Hi Blackfoot Sorry you had such a traumatic day They say a divorce is very similar to a death in terms of grieving. Denial->Anger->Bargaining->Depression->Acceptance. Everyone is different so you may not go through all of these stages but I hope you get to some level of acceptance and peace with all of this soon. Thinking of you. Hope you can find some sense of thanks this holiday and spend some quality time with friends and family. LFL