I probably could have come up with a better response yesterday, but I am wiped from being in manic stage just prior to Dday. Got grumpy handed out a spanking. Candle is being burned on both ends, x speaks to me in my dreams, cant sleep, and puddle of wax grows. set trap, point at trap, youngest of 6 steps in anyway. written communication skills falter. Im just a uneducated blue collar simple kinda guy.

TRUCE. mi amigo. I really sincerely hope you see how women fall into this 'trap' with their H's though when the H's unintentionally act like I 'acted'. Because I care.

<Gruff voice> 'nuff said. all this R talk makes me uncomfortable....

Of course TRUCE. You know I value your perspective BF but it is so fun to give you a hard time I sometimes get sidetracked
Back to business at hand.
I know you are going through a very hard time right now with DDay coming up. We are thinking of you and are hear to listen if you need to come and ball your eyes out (I know, not very manly) but who cares right now Sometimes you just got to let it fly.
So you are not sleeping? That sucks. I remember when H first left I was up at all hours. Crazy schedule. Wore me out. Take care of yourself.
And yes, this "youngest of sex"....Lol! was that a Freudian slip. I meant "youngest of six". Almost erased it but thought it was too funny. Hee Hee.
Anyways, this youngest of six falls into "the trap" all the time. Gotta learn. Still trying to get it. Thanks for saying you care. That means a lot. And I know H cares too. Sometimes when we get emotional we say things we do not mean or they just come out the wrong way. Guilty as charged myself. Working on it.
Thanks BF!!!!!