P.S. I was dating 3 men at the time I met my H--he was one of the three. Is this really that unusual? It did get a little hairy at times, but it all worked out okay.
Oh and Stig, my H was 28 when we married, your supposed age of schizophrenia?? I was 28 when I had my first child. In our home, 28 is an age where good things happen to you. We have now been married almost 10 years (our anni is right after Turkey Day) and I am hopeful that the next decade is less tumultuous than the last.
