I would be happy to have an arranged marriage LOL. That's a good one, considering your previous lists of "musts" on a woman

I would. the love that comes over time thru mutuall respect and 'playing your role' is much more genuine and real IMO then the fireworks of lust, romance, and attraction. The temporary loss of which I see as being the primary reason for D in our society.

My pesos worth.




--This last peso is worth a few thousand to me. (and maybe since we're talking about arranged Ms it should be "rupee?" ) I believe in this also and it would seem my x believes in the inverse.

Got the boot after all these years because she no longer "feels the butterflies" like at beginning of R. I don't think it coincidence this statement was made during new exposure to complimentary/flattering D alpha males in far away cities. Wants lust, romance back. I became the Beta, tending to my acts of service and comfort-making. I lose. Every time.
Going to set hard deadline for DBing while challenging other alphas en route to becoming one again myself. Not going to twist the knife in my gut longer than nec.

World is 52 percent Fs, 48 Ms. Odds in my favor. And BFs...and other wounded Ms. Ain't over till it's over in our broken Rs but we'll survive when it is.

--At least that's what I keep telling myself at this early stage. Argh. The way I'm feeling right now I may hold myself to the promise of not making more than 100 posts on this site. Feeling that itch to buy one-way plane ticket to Neverland again.

-Stigmata-

The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge;
the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.

-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-

...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ

-Stigmata-