I have loosely kept up with your situation. Regardless, I thought that it was time that I put in my (what will become unpopular) two cents worth.
Here is what I think you should do.
1) Figure out why you played relational leap frog with your wife and fix it in YOU.
2) Learn how to be a real macho man without the "layer of player" suit.
3) Dump your wayward spouse completely, the only communication being that required to legally sever the relationship.
4) Stay out of anything but the most causal of relationships for the next year so that you don't damage someone else while you heal.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
