the tendancy I was talking about was.... sheesh would one of the women pipe up and smack LFL around? uhh. to keep trying to get a man to stop 'acting' manly, and then she loses attraction when he does.
Karen? help me out here.
GREAT!! you did it . I just acted needy and asked a woman for help. Congrats! you broke my macho exterior. I didnt even last a couple days on a BB with you. See how strong your H is? He kept up with you for years....
That was a sad display BF. To attempt to have the women turn against me and/or fight your battles for you. Tsk Tsk. NOT very manly and certainly not gentlemanly. I know, I know, you were kidding, blah blah. Still, I'm cracking you like egg on Easter. (just made that up ) Is my H strong for keeping up with me? Time will tell I guess. He never had that macho exterior that is crumbling around you as we speak. Doesn't really need it I guess. He's has other strengths that keep us plugging away. Anyways, you need to remember BF, just like in the game of Survivor, I will always Out Wit, Out Play, and Out Last you so don't try and spin my words around on me or worse yet, ask others for assistance. Speak your own mind and I will do the same. I like you despite how much you piss me off. Go figure. And yes, I still believe you are a player and thus, will treat you accordingly. Prove my wrong if you dare. And running away from posting the women on this board does not prove anything. In fact, it does the opposite. It tells me you are so uncomfortable with having the "player" in you leak out that you will avoid instead of keeping a lid on it. You even said straight out that you were not going to tone down the macho stuff. Ok. Suit yourself. I thought we were friends BF. Unless you believe, as Lil stated once, that men and women can't be friends. Hmmm. I haven't figured that out myself but I'm trying. I can see how maybe your H seemed aloof, to you. I know you tried very hard before, and after he WA. OK? WA in itself is a killer emotionally. I have had your heaping helping and another (affair) on top. Thought we weren't going to compare war stories. Let us help, stubborn, willful, prideful girl. I wish I had this place before/ during reconcil. M/F dynamics are different. The same rules do not apply to us. You are all helping in your own way. Some give it to me straight, others validate my feelings. There is room for both. Not sure what you meant by same rules do not apply. Cyptic BF on the loose. Yes you should fight for it. Does that not apply to her? You ex has to come to that decision on her own, as painful as that is. Although others are right, especially HP's comments. What do you need to see from her?!??!!! Your ex has been trying according to my book. Look who's calling me stubborn. I dont even know if I like a girl before 10 dates,(though I do know if I dont like her before then....) Say wha??? Those poor women. 10 dates is a lot for man to then say to me "oh, by the way, I'm not sure if I like you yet." I know you don't come out and say that but it's the player mentality. Parallel dating, hee hee. I would be happy to have an arranged marriage LOL. That's a good one, considering your previous lists of "musts" on a woman. Darn where is that thing when I need it!? Nice try though. Ok that's enough "thread litter" for now.
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