I know I'm supposed to be detached, but I just want to blow off a little steam here...it might make me feel better. My cheating H has not worked in a couple of years; I've been supporting him. He attempted to start a business, but it has made zero income, and since he met the ow he has lost all interest in marketing or trying to make the business work. Since she moved into her apartment, we have been lending her some of our household goods, and he has been staying out later and later with her. Lately during whatever time he has spent with me, he has been obsessing over this expensive item that he wants me to buy for him. It all seems quite bizarre.
There ... now I guess I feel better, sort of. Thanks for listening.