Sassy is right on the money. I will tell you that about a month ago I had to ask my H. to be respectful of the time that he spends with me and to stop going outside to call o.w. or answer his cell if it's her. He was doing this entirely too much and it was downright rude behavior. He was acting like a child over it. Addiction is definitely what this is.
Anyway, he's been a lot better about it since I asked him (didn't yell or anything, just took a stance). Maybe you need to have this talk with your H. And you are very lucky he is still living with you.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
