I'm lost. h says not interested and all i seem to do is ask to ml. i continue to be rejected. blah blah blah. sounds like i;m complaining. i guess so. how do i get out of the rut?
We will be happy to offer suggestions. Going to need some more info about you, your H and your M. So take your time, and talk about your sitch, with pertinent details.
In your sitch, it's natural to complain. We do a lot of complaining around here.
Please give some more background. Ages, length of time married, any children, previous marriages, any counseling? Was the sex different/better in the beginning-- that is, when you first started dating, first married? When did it change? Does he seem interested in improving your sex life? Does he have health issues?
You've probably read enough of this board to see how these online conversations go. Our stories are very different, but they have common elements, too.