Quote: I tried validating mixed in with a little bit of encouragement.
This sounds perfect, Sam.
Not sure why he's complaining so much - likely merely venting. Excellent idea not to try to fix his sitch. Yet he also needs to adjust to your not being there for him to vent at daily.
I wouldn't answer the phone or emails daily, Sam. Titrate your support, letting him to slowly learn how to stand on his own 2 feet and to develop new social support. He keeps falling when he's dependent on you, so that didn't work. You're on the right path regarding your R with him.
How are you doing solo? What are you doing for fun, growth, reenergizing during this space?
You do have a good memory. Mine is horrible, so I appreciate the reminder and the caution. The note about respect is huge and was her #1 request of me when we split up. The rest is up to her. Sorry about the thread hijack there - back to Sam!
