Hi Sam, I know how you feel - your head tells you that you are doing the right thing but your heart is hurting.

I got an email from STBXH today saying that he just cannot simply afford our cell phone (we always split the costs), so he would cancel the plan, and I need to get a new plan on my own. I needed to do that anyway, but felt sad hearing it from him. He is really moving forward and is getting rid of everything we once shared.