Old Goal #1: Move back home with R, M and J under happy, healthy conditions by December 31st, 2005

New Goal #1: Get new neutral place for kids to live by Dec. 1st, 2005

New goal is to arrange it so mom and I swap times at kids place rather than them having to move back and forth between ours. Gives them stability and more time with Dad, gives mom more time to herself. Challenge is getting her to accept it.

Old Goal #1: To buy a family cottage for all of us by March 31st, 2006

New Goal #2: To make love to my wife by March 31st, 2006

New Bonus Goal: To take kids to Hawaii this February.