Hi Fran, OK so she says she doesn't fancy me - but I know different! Actually last Friday was the best for a long time with a hint of EC too (we have a Friday night schedule in case you didn't know). I have a feeling that her telling me she doesn't fancy me has got her thinking that maybe she does really. That shows the value of making personal disclosures to your partner. The person who makes the disclosure (her in this case) assumes it will have an affect on the other person but it can also have an affect on them. One big difference in our relationship is that I am not doing nearly so much needy pestering. I have got past that stuff so now she has a lot more space to express herself and she does now come to me for cuddles. I'm glad I came back here because my desire to "Move on" has faded and I can see that I have made progress. SD
