Hi SuperDave,

Thanks for saying hi on my thread - fellow Londoner. I have just finished reading my way through your post - phew. So many interesting contributions. OMG Dave 26 years of living with someone and now she turns round and says she hasn't really fancied you in all that time! I do think she may be rewriting history just a little bit. I also thing that having LD and feeling like you don't fancy someone can be one and the same thing. I think what she really means is she doesn't fancy IT, you are the one asking for IT all the time so you personify her lack of desire. I mean face it Dave you can fancy a frog if you're feeling hot enough - know what I mean? My H continually professes me to be gorgeous, the most fanciable woman he has ever met etc etc, I on the other hand think he's a bit of a geek (doesn't mean I don't love him though ). But HE is the one not fancying IT and I am the one hot to trot. Weird

Take care

Fran

if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs
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