I have to agree with my W that councelling is a waste of time. I suppose it's our British stiff upper lip. You guys are better than any councellor. I have absorbed all you are saying about EC and that is the approach I will take from now on. On Friday (the only day we can discuss R issues) I think I will explain that I would like to work towards EC and that sex is something that should just happen because of the mutual love between us and not something that we need to make an appointment for. SD
