I really hope what you just said was a vent for this board and not something you actually say to your wife. No matter how right you may be about your M situation, if you say something like that, with that tone, I'll bet you'll just get a "well if you are going to be that way about it, screw you" response everytime. Can you see how in your W's eyes, such a statement comes off sounding like a 3-year-old throwing a temper tantrum. I'm not trying to belittle you or say you are wrong about your wife. I just hope you have a better way of phrasing your complaints. Just my two cents.
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"