You are right on the money(for many LD's). My wife has a big fear of intimacy. She would never admit this though. She grew up in a completely dysfunctional setting, and it has screwed her up as an adult. Relationships require complete vulnerability, and LD's are never the vulnerable ones in a relationship, they have all the power. Being HD is extremely vulnerable as you face CONSTANT rejection. My wife LOVES to be in control of EVERYTHING in her life. She ends up doing a million things, and yet NONE of hese things will actually contribute to her marriage. I suspect that many LD's are this way, busier then h#ll, and yet all the things that they consider "important" will do virtually nothing to help their marriages. In a typical day, my wife will be busy till she goes to bed, and yet, not one single thing that she did during the day will meet ANY of my needs, but I bet she THINKS she met a need of mine in there. Is this something eles that LD women seem to fail at, they can not prioritize what is truly important? Seems that way in my case.
