I knew you never hit her, SD. I was trying to make a point.
Wow...your laptop crashed, too. Sucks to be you, my friend. (Reminds me to back-up my data)
A friend said to me just the other day: "You know, there is one good thing that has come out of four+ years of SSM: It has forced you to grow emotionally in ways you might never have had the opportunity to grow. The suffering it has caused you, has made you a better person."
