Quote: So I would say that from my viewpoint Mrs. SD's confession about her lack of attraction might be the first step in fixing it. Without her confession, there is no opportunity for change.
You know, I was going to say this, too, but I was kind of on a rant. Perhaps her saying "I don't fancy you" is shorthand for, "I don't fancy you RIGHT NOW, but I might get there someday."
But come on, they've been together 26 years, and she says she felt that way before they got married. I think you might be being a bit overly optimistic.
