Have you told your wife that you have decided to move on?
Don't you think it is fair that she know you have reached your limit with the relationship?
Instead of playing pushme/pullyou, you might want to consider a heads on, straight up approach. If you decide to divorce, there will be plenty of legally forced situations that you will not be able to conflict avoid. It will not be fun or at all easy.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
