About a year ago we did an LL survey. Aquarian actually produced an Excel graph of it. HDs were almost all PT (Physical Touch) and WOA (Words of Appreciation) and LDs were predominantly QT (Quality Time) and AOS (Acts of Service). Receiving Gifts was non existant. As an HD I suggest that your QT feelings are more likely to be Quality PT Time. LDs assume QT is non-intimate activities such as walking in the country, shopping etc. To me and I suspect you and most HDs, quality time would be quality bed time ie. quality PT with some nice quality WOA thrown in. Also what do you think of by Act of Sevice? Of course an LD thinks of helping round the house, with the kids, helping with the grocery shopping etc. An HD thinks an Act of Service means a blow job! SD - Who says we all speak the same language?
