See, there you have an advantage. I'm at the point that I'm not even sure what MrsGGB could do to turn it around for me, short of becoming someone she is not. I'm having a very hard time telling her what is wrong because of this. I can pinpoint the moment my give-a-damn got busted, but that isn't giving me many clues as to what she needs to do to fix it. Right now, it isn't so much the sex for me as much as it is having her put effort into the R, and in particular, toward quality time.
When I took the LL quiz, I scored nearly evenly between QT and PT. At the time I thought it was wrong and that PT was my dominant LL. Now I see that the test was correct, and that QT can very much become a dominant LL for me. Hers, BTW are AOS and WOA.
OK, so if I am forced to think about what she could change, I guess it would be her opening up to let me inside. She's got a wall that she keeps her personal feelings etc hidden behind. The biggest peek I got behind the wall was during the WWME, but even then she would not let me in. The WWME dialogs haven't been happening. She feels too uncomfortable with it and shuns it more than anything else. It's like she's got a huge fear of intimacy. She has mentioned a couple of times something to the effect of "what if you don't like what I have inside".
