SuperMan, Your cuddles just arrived, thank you very much.
I am intrigued by your situation. Honestly, you've been accepting far too little from her for years. It is time for the Mrs. to step up to the wife-ly plate. Not allowing kisses??! What kind of life is that.
Keep up your current changes; they seem to be having a drastic effect. Do what works. Stay confident and loving. We are all rooting for you over here.