I had an interesting job offer (out of the blue) yesterday in Staffordshire, which suprised me. When I mentioned it to my H last night he actually said he would consider moving over there if he could be transferred or find a job himself. It's another AOS on his part, but I didn't even think he'd consider a move like that....it did touch me a bit that he would truly consider doing that in order to make me happy.
BTW, I'm doing much of what you are doing as well. It's because I'm numb and having to protect msyelf, but I'm also being standoffish with my H. He's definitely noticing, and he's doing some things to be affectionate, but he's not really stretching himself. So, as Hairdoggie said...don't be surprised if this is short-term on her part.
