Friday afternoons

[Briget]

It all comes down to boundries.Where do you set you line in the sand?

If he is nasty avoid him.He will get the message.Not the first time.Maybe not even the 50th time.But he will get it.

Having children with Andy should not keep you from finding love.It may feel like your protecting yourself from hurt but in reality not being open to love again is just as harmful if not more so.There are roughly six billion people in this world.Being open to the posibility of love again gives us hope.We were made to love.It's in our nature.And to not be open to it is going against our one need that is formost.

Deal with the past and move on.Sounds easy when it's just words.It's the work of it that is hard.But in the long run it is so worth it.

I'm a feminist to the bone.But I see it diffently.I'm a mans equal.But I'm his opposite.I have a role to play.I enjoy my feminity.And I love the maleness of a man.I don't need one to complete me.I'm complete all on my own.However I know that I am missing an wonderful part of the human experance if I chose to not include a man in my future.

I'm not ready for that now.I would be cheating a man out of a woman who isn't quit over the anger of having been hurt.But it was just this one man who hurt me.All men havn't hurt me.Just him.To overlook the fact that there are good men out there is cheating me.And some man would be cheated out of something wonderful.ME!!! Damn it I'm wonderful as are all woman.

I'm not a theif.I will not steal my wonderfulness from some wonderful man.I deserve to be loved.And somewhere out there is someone who deserves to be loved by me.


So how is that for a feminist?One who loves men.


Later Friends
Briget