I've got a story from the other side. My friend is a WAW. She says that her and her H are even better friends now. Sound familiar? But despite that, she expressed no hesitation in stating that she's filing for divorce. It makes me think of situations like mine, where we were becoming better friends than ever and I felt it meant something. What I got from my WAW friend is that it means something to them...they are glad that they could remain friends. It actually seemed to me as though the friendliness made the process easier. I thought to myself, but never said, that he was probably still so friendly because he wanted her back. Just thought I'd share that. It really just was a reminder to me that I was stupid to think my XW wanted to be friends because there was a possibility of getting back together. More likely it assuaged her guilt.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
