I do believe that there is someone out there for everyone, I really believed that it was my XH, we connected so quickly and paths were closed together yet never crossed--same school up until 9th grade, lived streets apart, worked next door to each other. It was as if we were meant to meet. Maybe it is like Jo said, maybe he was a soulmate just not who I am destined to spend my life with. Our breakup was very painful, but had I not met him I would not be who I am today and I like who I am. I do believe in true love and one day I will meet that guy and grow old with him. Linda