Thank you Lisa. You and the others have already made me feel welcome and supported here.
I really appreciated your comment that "time is your friend."
It feels exhausting on the surface because WAW and I had been together for fifteen years, and then seperated these past three years, so there has already been a lot of time that has passed. Time where it seems to me that I have already demonstrated more than my fair share of patience.
And yet I have only been actively divorce busting for the past couple of months, so I have to wrap my head around being at the beginning of an uncertain road.
But that's where my ex-wife (first time I have EVER called her that) that's where she says she wants to be too. At the start of a real friendship. Says she:
"...can't even think about anything else until we are friends so please f*** off and leave me alone until we are friends and its none of your goddamn business who I sleep with."
I know, I know, time is on my side.
Truckin'
got my chips cashed in
Keep truckin' like the doo-dah man
together, more or less in line, just keep truckin on...
Sometimes the light's all shinin' on me;
Other times I can barely see
Lately it occurrs to me what a looooooong strange trip its been!
