Having to relearn "having no expectations". Was feeling bad that the kids had to suffer as a result of all this. Mostly they have a very positive outlook on this, I try to follow their lead. Hopefully I can continue to be patient and give W the time she needs. If I feel that it's more a matter of the heals are in and no chance of that changing, we might have to rethink this one. I am studying to make sure where I should be and the best way to get there. The bottom line is that it is her choice, however I do have a choice in how I react.
