Thanks BeingMe,

No offense about W, your right on the money. Will she grow up and learn more about building relationships, only time will tell. Building friendships is exactly the right phrase, my parents are good friends with a family we use to have problems with all the time growing up. I've also noticed as people get older, their friendships get closer, they are more tolerant and have a better handle on what is important.

I have been trying to keep the light on for her. There are shadows of positives, but nothing overly obvious yet.