Yep, your pretty much on the money. Did however have a bit of a breakthrough. In a lot of ways I use to kind of ride myself hard about letting things get the way they had. However the other evening we had company over, W choice not mine, but I had jumped right in and was enjoying the activity. The kids in other room were starting to do something, not unlike kids, however W went to deal with it and kind of went off enroute. I and the other couple sat there and kind of look at each other with the "what got into her" look. It all pretty much seemed unprovoked, since the kids were not doing anything too out of nature.
It kind of dawned on me then that it was not an issue of me doing anything too bad, but a matter of how she had chosen to react to it. There I was, acting like I would as I if I was in a group not worrying about tailoring my actions around her. We were all enjoying ourselves, then W went off, unprovoked/unwarrented as best as we could tell. Very shortly there after she was back to her pleasant self again. Hmmm?
I just let it go and figured she could just own her own issues. Didn't bring it up, neither did she. Lately I have been getting more involved with GAL and finding things to do of my own. Main endevor seems to be gearing up. W seems to be asking more about it. I'll fill you in more another time.
