Since your on my thread I'll take the liberty to respond to your post. Yes there are a few of us LDS guys on here too. Unfortunately our W do get sucked in by the ways of the world also. They try to put a worldly spin on the truth to justify their behavior. In my sitch, W hides it from here parents, because she knows they would call it as it is. In fact in my sitch she would like me to bug first so she can say it was all my fault. But I know what is right and what "commitments" I have made and I will do my best to live up to them. If I get a chance later tonight I'll hop over to your thread and finish reading it.
Being me will be a good resource when she is back, she can give you the woman's side. Till then I'll try to hold down the fort. Hang in there.