Cool! things are warming up! and Happy Anniversary!
I hear what you are saying about children of divorced parents. The spouse that wants a D will say 'they will be okay'. In some cases, such as my folks, D was honestly the best option for the family. Even I knew that when I wasn't even a teenager yet. I also have friends that have been married for almost 35 years. Not any of their kids have decided that marriage is the best option, but they do live with a SO. Maybe I am just saying it is the quality of the marriage that is important for the kids to get the concept.
Keep the good information coming. Waahoo!
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