Well, happy anniversary to me. We had a nice dinner out, even finish the evening "properly". Some sweet little waitress would have gotten a huge tip if I would have had the chance. She asked if we were celebrating anything, when I answered she said, "wow that's amazing, you guys met and married within a year and have been married that long, you must really have known it was right". At this point I showed true game face, just smiled at the waitress and stole a glance over to wife. I bet anyone here could have jump in with a fairly loaded statement, but I did the right thing and no harm or foul (just point made).

Now mix that with a friend of wife coming and wishing me a happy Aniversary (that means W admitted to friends that she was having an Anniverary), I'll take that as a positive. Overall I think W is trying to do the right thing, but some old attitudes slip in now and then.