I will be looking out for your email, Phoenix! One thing I'd like to respond to in your post, is that .... yes, they have wronged us, but I think, ultimately, they have wronged themselves more, and one must feel a little compassion for them because when they realise (and they will eventually figure it out, in this world or the next), how much pain that is going cause for them. So, I have learned something from my H - don't cause that kind of pain to someone else!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
One thing I'd like to respond to in your post, is that .... yes, they have wronged us, but I think, ultimately, they have wronged themselves more, and one must feel a little compassion for them because when they realise (and they will eventually figure it out, in this world or the next), how much pain that is going cause for them. So, I have learned something from my H - don't cause that kind of pain to someone else! 
