Yes, there was, but trying to figure out what caused it and what I should do to continue this trend. I certainly will check out the rest of that article. There's an amazing amount of things to learn just from what you posted. Some hits close to home. Perhaps on a side e-mail I'll get your input into what happened.
Like yourself I am getting to be a little more at peace of what I have chosen to become and to let the rest fall in the Lord's hands, moving forward on his time. I'm sure I have mentioned this before, but perhaps the next book other then DB/DR that has set the tone for me the last couple of years is "The Peacegiver". It follows along the same path as what you have just given, mainly forgiveness, releasing of hard feelings and recognizing the divine nature of the people we are married to. As you know it is hard to think of that when they have wronged you, but it's the only way you will get out of this and feel at peace with yourself and God.