You definately have some good ideas and thoughts there. Perhaps what bothers me the most is being stuck in limbo land. W hasn't committed or voiced leanings either way. Then again maybe she has, just hasn't found a way to do so and come out respected by those who she does care about. This has sure been an eye openning experience in regards to seeing who truely are our friends and those who just say what they think the should say, right or wrong.
Perhaps what bothers me the most is knowing how critical a time it is for our kids and W being such a negative force in all of our lives. I guess I just have to find some way of not letting W dictate our lives. Some day she is going to have to face what she has done, I don't think she has the courage to, so I guess she will just walk. This time I hope I'm wrong, however, some days I don't care.