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[BeingMe]

Phoenix, why are you playing her game? You say you are tired of everything being done to her approval, but you don't have to do that. You control you. Don't fight with her, but don't cow-tow to her either. That, of course, is my humble opinion, and you must do what you feel is right. But, my feeling is that you allow your W to get away with far too much, for the sake of peace, perhaps? Maybe, if she realises that the world doesn't constantly revolve around her, and her needs, then she might wake up. I am sorry! It sounds like I am really being mean, but I cannot stand over-controlling people, who have the attitude that only their way is perfection, and they will only be happy when things are to their satisfaction. Very selfish, self-serving, and rather childish, but then, that is what MLC'ers are, 'eh!



I hope the week goes well for you, despite your sitch!