What to do next?

[BeingMe]

Personally, I don't care if H sees my postings. Might shake him up a bit, since lately he is taking things for granted, and I am letting him. You talk about ML - well, my H has not been interested for some time now. I don't know what it is, but I have decided to adopt the wait and see attitude. Up until the last time he decided he wanted the D, and that he really "didn't love me after all" (so tired of hearing those words), and my discovering that he had still been in contact with OW (up until early April), I had been doing most of the initiating. This time, I will not do it. No way, no how!

Okay, enough about me. Phoenix, perhaps it's the guilt that's making your W and my H uninterested in sex. They may not think they feel guilty, but it must be there somewhere, and maybe this is how it is manifesting itself. Patience is probably the only way to go, otherwise one becomes resentful which is what was happening with me. I figure, he'll come around sometime. It is frustrating, I know. Just find other things to do and stuff to occupy your mind. I am glad I am studying right now.

Just keep working at your goals, and reworking them as you reach some, and find others. I find my goals have evolved, and continue to do so as I work on myself.

Hope the Christmas season brings some small miracles for you and your family.