[color:"blue"] Some times I wonder if W has been checking this board, so I'm cautious. [/color] I know that feeling..... email or IM? is that an option with you?
Right now I am back to zero, maybe +.5, with H. True, our schedules that last few nights don't put us together, but we don't even communicate about what we did or didn't do. I know from the past that H feels it when I shut down, and he thinks then that I am mad at him, and so then he mirrors me, when I think it started with him, and we can't get out of the circle. So going 'dark' doesn't really feel like it will make any difference for me, except I get miserable and he doesn't care. It feels like nothing I do makes any difference in his reaction or lack of. It's just total shut out. I still need to figure out how to apply without damage to the R.
