Thanks Phoenix, I think I figured out some stuff on my way home from town tonight. Check out my new thread Hanging on/The Long Haul.
Act as if without looking like 'I don't care' is tough, isn't it? I wallow back and forth with this all the time. I think the key is to act as if while acting lovingly but staying detached while giving space and keeping yourself balanced. Should be a snap, huh?
IMO, if you and W are used to having R talks, don't let them slide. Take and Make the time. I understand that when you're sick isn't a good time, just don't find reasons to put it off.
What kind of brush do you use on Technique?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.