Didn't happen. Schedule this time of year has been a bear. Last night both of us were sick. W fell asleep on the couch, which doesn't happen often. Hopefully sometime this weekend we will have talk. Been brushing up on technique.

I've been following your thread. My heart goes out to you. Perhaps a little lovingly detachment is in line. Yes, that trust issue is a big problem, but it will come with time and work. Re-focus on your self development, don't dwell on things you can't control. There's a lot of us out here watching and cheering for you. My challenge is to work on the "as if" also and not let it look like "don't give a __". (Refocus on upbeat attitude).

Keep at it, you can do it.