Isn't it so tempting to want to spill the beans? But what would it accomplish...would I feel any better? No, and I think part of the reason H is still around is because very few people know what is really going on and if I keep it that way then it will be HIM that has to answer everyones questions if he walks.
Let that pair burn and get some new ones. Long term plans for the whole family, that includes you, and that is sooooo good! Sure, wish for more, but don't forget to look at how good some things are now.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.