Well I guess I posted enough to my last thread that it got locked, so here we go with a new one. Lately I have been kind of struggling on what to do in my sitch. What I see is good change, in all but a few parts. Unfortunately those few parts included major LL components for me. It seems that we have reached a point of stand off and W does not look to be moving in that direction any time soon.
I made a call into my MC, although we haven't been in a while, I will try to make an appt. for myself and leave an open invite to W. Right now I find myself trying to figure out what I missed, and where to head next. What bothers me is I know we can make our way out of this, however W seems to be fixed on not crossing a line she has put down as how far she will come back. Perhaps she is afraid that if she gets too far back in she can't justify bailing at will. Part of my struggle has to do with too many nonDB types telling me to bail and cut bait. This would probably suit wife just fine because she could lay any blame she wanted on me.
I knew when we married she was strong willed. I'm starting to regret that now. Back then I believed it would be a strength to our marriage, not a boat anchor holding us back. I'm open to any and all recommendations.
