Lil, I second what you posted. If people "want to" do things usually they can achieve at some level. The ones that say they can't it is more of a a case they won't.
BB had clients where she worked that could not work because they were on drugs. To the employees there, it was more they were on drugs because the government gave them money to live on so they did not have to work.
Make adult people work to support them selves (I am all for SAMH and think more should stay home) and sometimes social problems solve them selves when people work and try to be part of something bigger than they are they cant manipulate. It drove me nuts not being able to work after my second major back injury, but that is me.
