Z-Bube... As a child of parents who would fight constantly, I used to fantasize all the time about them divorcing in order to have some happiness. ( I think Lil said this as well). And there were happy times, for sure, but they were so overshadowed by that black cloud of animosity. The reason I am saying this to you now is that I don't want you to feel guilty if you have to rearrrange your living conditions in some way. I do believe that with crisis comes the opportunity for change, so don't be afraid to shake things up...I disagree with the C's assessment to keep the peace...get in there and defend those girls ( and yourself) with all you got...and GEL is right, find some time for enjoyable things.
